Life Force

Deep at the center of our being, there is a life force seeking expression. This life force isn’t a personal […]

Posted February 14th, 2017 in Change | Individual Counseling Leave a comment

When Change Isn’t Noticed

It happens frequently in couples counseling. A husband or wife will agree to try some new behavior their partner has […]

Posted February 7th, 2017 in Change | Marriage and Couples Leave a comment

The Illusion of Control

It happens to all of us. We stumble, or say something inappropriate, or can’t lose the weight, or can’t get […]

Posted February 2nd, 2017 in Change | Individual Counseling Leave a comment

Let’s Start Over

Every couple runs into impasses, situations in their lives where trying to talk about some difference or disagreement right now […]

Posted January 31st, 2017 in Marriage and Couples Leave a comment

Love and Consequences

They knew soon after they met that they were meant for each other, together for life. They married, became parents […]

Posted January 26th, 2017 in Marriage and Couples Leave a comment

Escaping the Self-Image Trap

Our view of ourselves is built up through an emphasis on key qualities, ways we see ourselves akin to or […]

Posted January 23rd, 2017 in Change | Individual Counseling Leave a comment

Why Judging Others Leads to Your Suffering

Judging yourself and others can be the source of a great deal of suffering in yourself and in your relations […]

Posted January 18th, 2017 in Individual Counseling Leave a comment

Is It Too Late?

At least one of you is talking about divorce, your problems are so longstanding that you can’t even remember how […]

Posted December 3rd, 2014 in Marriage and Couples Leave a comment

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